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Ok someone tell me if im wrong, so basically me and my boyfriend were on the phone and I was waiting for him to do something(he wouldn't tell me what he was doing) so I asked THREE times "are you done yet?" With the 3rd time being "tell me when your done" and know backup knowledge is that yesterday he was acting like he was going to kill himself and stuff and he kinda got sorted out but yk how some of that can be hes still healing yk? But anywho he decided i was being a bitch " "pestering" him(exact words) and he hung up on me after saying "yk what im done" so obviously I texted him and he was mad??? And we argued about how I felt wronged for literally doing nothing wrong but asking him a few questions and how I felt that I didn't deserve that reaction.. but instead of realizing yk that was a strong reaction he instead tells me that I do this all the time and that im being a bitch and that I need to understand when to be quite and he no joke gave me a Google search of the meaning of "pestering" which feels like a dig at me because I often reply fast and I have big hands for my phone so I slip up alot and get spelling mistakes or leave words out ect, and yk thats a problem hes repeatly made fun of me for and at one point said no joke "your the dumbest girl I've dated" which obviously hurt my feelings..... but besides all that yea.... felt kinda like a dig at me and then the argument gets to the point were I say "im not replying until you say sorry" but of course he doesn't say sorry and instead tells me that im a bitch and hes not degrading? Himself by saying sorry again..... so obviously we fight again and stuff and now we'll yea somone please help me he keeps saying "your ego is so big you cant understand when your wrong" and yea my ego is big? I have self respect??? Idk sonone help