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*Journal by Mushk* _April 10, 2026 — 11:30 PM, PECHS roof_ The stadium’s on. I can hear it from here. Not the commentary just the roar, like the city exhaling all at once. Pakistan vs West Indies. Nine years since they played here. I’m not watching. I’m up here with my laptop and a chai that’s gone cold. But I’m listening. Because Karachi sounds different when it’s happy. Fiancé texted 20 mins ago: “You watching?” I sent back: “I’m working.” He sent a thumbs up. He gets it. That’s why August 29 happened. Not because I was looking to be chosen. Because he looked at my life and didn’t ask me to put the camera down. I still think about Izmir sometimes. August 2024. Yaşar University. I was 22, alone in Bornova, eating simit for breakfast and crying in the dorm bathroom because a professor told me “Don’t go home and shrink.” I didn’t. Came back, finished IoBM, graduated December 2025. Framed that degree next to the Yaşar certificate. They look good together. Proof and permission. Ma came over yesterday. Saw the ring on my chain and didn’t say anything. Just moved it so it caught the light from the window. “Acha hai,” she said. That’s it. That’s all I needed. I was a kid on _Mar Jain Bhi To Kya_. Oct 2012 to Jan 2013. Ten years old, memorizing lines in a van. I liked the craft. I didn’t like being watched. The day we wrapped, I used the paycheck to buy a sketchbook. I’ve been trying to see instead of be seen ever since. Beaconhouse. Alpha. IoBM. All of it got me here: a one-room in PECHS with a lease in my name and a hard drive full of other people’s 6am. “Roshni” got an email today. Lahore wants to print it. The series I started in 2020 during load-shedding, when I was 19 and saving for IoBM and the whole world was inside. April 6 was different. Consulate. 9 dead. I didn’t go out. Charged my batteries and stayed home. Wrote: “The city bled today. I kept my hands steady.” That’s the job sometimes. Not to shoot it. To stay ready, and to stay human. I’m 24. Engaged. Not married. No kids. No plans to be less me. I still wear blue on purpose. I still photograph laundry between buildings because it reminds me of Izmir and Nazimabad at the same time. The roar from NSK just got louder. Someone hit a six. I’m not down there. I’m up here. And for once, that doesn’t feel like missing out. — Mushk _P.S. If 10-year-old me on that set could see this roof, this ring, this email, she’d think I was lying. Good.

Will i be his back burner? He liked someone for 10 years. Now he's coming for me for sure haha. I don't want it to be infatuation...

Ily guys youre all sweethearts

internalised misogyny is when you see a woman sitting in the back of the room wearing high heels and a skirt minding her own business and suddenly you’re all too quick to assume that she must be so full of herself or a narcissist because she doesn’t talk to anyone but two specific people. Suddenly calm, collected and introverted people don’t exist anymore and apparently it’s funny to bash these people because they may have some sort of anxiety regarding certain situations. Leave this woman alone for fuck’s sake. And why is that the girl is always in the wrong while the guy who always sits in front row gets to be perceived as mysterious and attractive but in a good way? again, that’s internalised misogyny. Another example of internalised misogyny is when you hear a guy spreading an obviously fake rumor about a woman he supposedly dated a while ago (it never happened) and instead of paying attention to what the girl has to say you start bashing her for even reacting to the current situation. That’s internalised misogyny, Alice, and that’s exactly what you’ve been doing along with your friends. If a guy that is not even involved in that “drama” spills all the tea, for goddamnest sake, try to use some critical thinking (i know you can do it) and connect the dots on your own, if you REALLY care about the issue, of course, which you SHOULDN’T because that’s really not your business. The guy who told you stuff about it is friends with a girl who used to severely make fun of me with him and the other guy who spread those rumors about me because at that time i used to be extremely skinny. He started all the drama after i told him that i liked him, and basically what happened next was that he started screenshotting my pictures and adding filters to all of them. Even a friend of mine got the same treatment from him and she was so embarrassed that she had to drop out. While you’re there supporting an abuser and his bully girlfriend, i’m right here minding my own business once again. If you didn’t even care of listening to both sides of the story, it means you’re just in for some drama and it’s concerning to witness and even be part of a situation like this considering the degree we’re all trying to major in. As for anything else i’ve ever said after what happened years ago, i have no regrets :) the fact that i don’t know who you are yet you know everything about me is very creepy, but i can handle it i guess

April 10, 2026 — Morning I made my two selves hug today. I didn’t expect it to hit me the way it did. Seeing Original Maryam and Korean Maryam with their arms around each other, it wasn’t awkward or forced. It looked like relief. Like two people who’d been walking parallel paths finally turned and said, “Oh. It’s you.” I keep asking if they’re sisters or best friends. But I think I was really asking: Am I allowed to like all of me? Not just the newest version, not just the one people compliment. All of me. Original me built the foundation. She’s the reason I’m stubborn in a good way. She’s why I know what home tastes like. Korean me gave me permission to experiment. To wear the eyeliner, to romanticize my life, to believe reinvention isn’t betrayal, it’s growth. They don’t have to fight. That hug said: “We’re both real. We both get to stay.” So yeah. I think I am my own best friend today. Because best friends don’t make you pick. They say “bring all of you.” Today I will: Do one small thing that would make both of them proud. Drink water like Original me would remind me to. Try that lip tint Korean me’s been eyeing. Let them team up. That’s it. That’s the entry.