Btw a major part in feminism is beating the misogynistic patriarchy. This includes breaking gender norms. Allowing women to propose, allowing women to do things that "only men" can do. Allowing men to cry, allowing men to do "feminine" things too.
I can’t save you, my garden No amount of my magick will keep you safe. My garden of wild plants and animals is growing beautifully, but they will still be after you. The plants I can’t protect. I have failed in the past and a silence of animals has fallen onto my garden before. All I can do is go on. You have come back stronger, and time is always your ally. I will always aid my hand when I can, but understand I am apart of this garden. The wild is threatened and attempted to be cut away. There will always be eyes that look with disgust. But still silver leaf you bloom this year stronger than before, But still the wasps survive the winter, But still the birds raise their children here, But still the latana you turned from one sick bush to big blooms with your children spread about wonderfully, But still my roses bloom overcoming sickness. We can’t stop those from wanting control over us my garden, but time will always be our ally and we will always fight to grow and bloom. My garden, you are a place inhabited by all sorts of life. My garden, I say in the way I say “my friend” since you are not just something I own, but a system of life with me deeply apart of. We all grow in this strange garden, and let’s all never stop for as long as we can.