Okay so, there's this girl who wants to have something physical with me and I asked my gf if it was okay and she said yes and that she's been thinking maybe physical touch isn't her thing anymore and a few hours later my gf says she feels like she's not fine with me being physical with my friend after all, and like, I'm fine with that, of course, but like I LOVE physical touch and being close but my gc doesn't want to be touched in a way she's been okay with before like cuddling, and like of course I'll respect that but like idk what to do, I want something with my friend but my gf isn't okay with it and I love her like what do I do bro😭😭 There's also that when I've asked my gf what she likes about me she never mentions my looks in anyway but my friend specifically likes my looks since she's aromantic and like I feel really good about being found attractive but idk dude