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I wont give you any advice, ill just share a lil story abt my ex incase youre curious. It might not be anything like ur situation but yk.. He was incredibly clingy with me, to an unhealthy extent. If i didnt see him atleast a minimum of once/twice a week he'd get rlly temperamental and have mental outbreaks towards himself. Whenever i did see him he'd only want to do lustful things, even when i tried to direct it to wholesome stuff like watching his favourite films and going out, hed constantly try to engage in something sexual. Hed constantly whine if he didnt get what he wanted. If you told him what to do, if you criticised him, if he needed to do basic things like showering, if you didnt want to have intercourse, if you werent with him 24/7 etc he kept getting upset over every tiny thing and relied on me to do everything for him even if it was something only he could do. His lack of concern for our relationship & me resulted him in doing pretty heinous stuff later on. He only cared about easing his pains & indulging his pleasures through me. This continued till he began talking about wanting kids. I left him, i didnt want someone like that as a father and i didnt want someone like that to be incontact with my family He was incredibly mentally ill and had a twisted sense of love & relationships, everyone had told me to be understanding of him and to come to terms with our differences but i believe that a person shouldn't have to put up with someone thats only making them feel negatively, even if they understand their circumstances. Sometimes the best kind of love is the one you have for yourself. At the beginning it all felt fine, then a little annoying & confusing, till it completely ruined me I honestly felt sick being with him, it didnt feel like love anymore I was simply a goal Anyway, the way i go about things is by thinking about how this would affect the future. Sometimes our gut tells us all we need to know. Goodluck figuring things out! Hopefully it all goes well 😊🩷🩷🩷!